This is a collection of frequently asked questions from clients/hosts who were booking a pleasant escort time.
Questions answered from Ben N.
The answers might differ from others listed in to page (work in progress)
Am I allowed to kiss you/ do you kiss me?
- From my point of view kissing is a really important part of letting a connection an love flow, yes. I love to kiss in any variations at any spots of the body starting at the neck, going to the mouth=). I you prefer not to kiss this is totally fine we can talk about what you like and what not.
How does a regular date look like?
- After your request via Email oder Instagram, we speak about your intentions/motivation/wishes from a escort-date, than I suggest a few day/time options. If you wish we can also get in touch via telephone before. At the day of the date we meet in a privat or public space where ever you wish. We take steps towards more and more sensuality and sexuality in a highly attentive and consensual way, more or less fast depending on our feeling. You decide how long the date should be before or also while meeting. After the date I text you 2-3days after for a check-in message, who you are doing. From that moment on I don't text you from myself but you are welcome to text me again for questions or new bookings.
Do I need to provide condoms?
- No, the condoms are always provided by the man.
How does the payment work?
- The payment is always after the dating moment. In cash or via bank transfer (PayPal, tikkie or direct IBAN transfer)
Are you talking beforehand about special needs or desires?
- Yes, this is part of the connecting phase to get to know each other via chatting, email, (video) call, or while a personal chat at the date moment. To me, it's really helpful to understand the persons situation and wishes in the way of what they want to share. It helps me to connect and create genuine interest, comfort, and attention.
Am I allowed to talk to you also after our date?
Yes, your are welcome. Only I might not have enough time to engage in a long and deep conversation.
Do I need to know how long the date will be before?
No, we can be flexible and see how long the date will be. This is one reason why the payment is after our date time.
Who pays for the drinks, meal, and hotel?
The regular way is that the host/(client) covers all the costs.
